1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:05,000 A really easy decision for me. Stay. NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:09,160 Stay. Stay. ..it was a commitment ceremony of celebrations... 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,200 I think we're in such a good place now. 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,120 Bubbly, fun Grace is back. 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,640 I'm just really excited to see how far we can go. 6 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:18,520 ..and revelations... 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:22,600 You're not as emotionally connected as maybe we thought you were. 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:23,800 Yeah. 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,240 ..ahead of an emotional exit for Sarah and Dean. 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,760 We've tried, you know, but I can't do this any more 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:30,840 It's tiring. 12 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:32,600 I just don't think we're right for each other. 13 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,960 My decision is to leave. 14 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,040 My decision is to leave. 15 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,240 Tonight... I don't think he's really trying. 16 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,800 ..even while apart... Just say, "Here, you are treating me 17 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,040 "like a BLEEP piece of shit." 18 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,360 Nellie... I-I'm not you! ..and Steven... 19 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,200 I don't think any of this is Nellie's fault. 20 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,040 You did BLEEP up. I'm done with it! 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,080 ..find their marriage stays under fire. 22 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:02,400 Clowns. 23 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,960 And for Divarni... You have great sex. 24 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:06,160 You have great sex. 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:07,680 You're not really having any at the moment. 26 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:08,920 You have no sex. LAUGHTER 27 00:01:08,960 --> 00:01:11,280 ..the burden of a long hidden secret... 28 00:01:11,320 --> 00:01:14,160 So I know the truth. She knows the truth. 29 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,240 This is really starting to piss me off. 30 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,480 ..sparks an explosive clash with wife Julia-Ruth. 31 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,040 I looked like a complete BLEEP fool today. 32 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,560 We need to talk about this off camera. 33 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,360 You can be honest. Let it BLEEP go. 34 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,560 You want everything to be done your way. 35 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,280 No respect for me at all. 36 00:01:30,320 --> 00:01:32,120 I don't know where we go from here. 37 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,000 I'm so excited to have a spa day and get our nails done! 38 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,680 Today, the group is splitting in two, with husbands 39 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,400 and wives spending time apart on separate days out. 40 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,080 Just let the hair down. Yeah. Get in the Jacuzzi. I can't wait. 41 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,480 One half is arriving at a luxury spa, 42 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,640 while the other heads out for cocktails. 43 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,280 Come on, you lot. We're away from the partners. 44 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,080 Let's have a good day, yeah? Left the ball and chain at home. 45 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,160 In this phase of the experiment, 46 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,800 our couples have been spending nearly every waking hour together. 47 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,920 It's so nice just to have a little break from the hubby. 48 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,600 I know! Cheers, babe. 49 00:02:17,640 --> 00:02:20,520 While this level of closeness can deepen their bond, 50 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,520 it's equally important that they take some time apart 51 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:24,720 to gain perspective 52 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,800 and reflect individually on their relationships. 53 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:31,160 This is nice. Stunning. Oh, here we go. Woo! 54 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,160 How can I help you today? 55 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,120 Can we have, like, four tequila shots, please? 56 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,520 Absolutely.Yay! LAUGHTER 57 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:40,600 Today offers a valuable 58 00:02:40,640 --> 00:02:45,360 and mutually beneficial opportunity for each newly-wed to seek support, 59 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,920 gain perspective, and find greater clarity 60 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:49,320 on their journey so far. 61 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:50,440 Right, let's have a cheers 62 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,960 and let's not think about what they're doing. Cheers! 63 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:56,800 Good to get out... It is good to get out. 64 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,680 ..finally. Yeah. You know what? 65 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,400 I actually think this is really what I needed. 66 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,000 Come on, girl. This is what I needed. 67 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,680 NELLY: It was a pretty hard commitment ceremony last night, 68 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,960 so, no, I am really excited to see everyone, 69 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:11,480 have some drinks, have some convo. 70 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,280 Yeah, I'm really looking forward to it. 71 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,560 Would anyone ever, like, make their partner do a lie detector test, 72 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,320 if they weren't 100%, like, believing what they're telling you? 73 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,120 It depends what it is... You would love a lie detector test! 74 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,560 Yeah. You would have one in the house. 75 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,000 You're thinking of where they sell them now. 76 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,120 You're gonna go home... 77 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,520 If you had one... Well, I want to know... Would you ask him 78 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,240 about his feelings, just so... ...Yeah, of course 79 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,080 ..you put yourself at ease? You only ask one question - 80 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:34,160 do you fancy me? 81 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,680 Yeah. That's just me, right? That's because, 82 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,640 clearly, and I hate to admit it, I'm obviously insecure about that, 83 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,080 so I just want to make sure that he does. 84 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,160 But he says he does, so I have to believe him. 85 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,280 This is the first time in my entire life 86 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,960 I have told a man that I like him. 87 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,440 Since the, um, commitment ceremony, though... 88 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:54,600 ..how's that been, like, 89 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:56,480 has that affected your, like, relationship at all? 90 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,040 Yeah, of course, like... How's he been since? 91 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,360 It was really, really hard and, don't get me wrong, 92 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,080 the experts have called out stuff that he has done in the past. 93 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,640 Do you feel there have been times 94 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,520 of conflict where you have been minimised? 95 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,800 Yes. 96 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,920 Do you feel like there's an issue 97 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,280 that you bring to him and the issue is deflected? 98 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:19,360 Yes. I'm sorry. 99 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,120 But, when I opened up last week, 100 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,040 my feelings were shut down like that. 101 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,200 So why weren't my feelings considered in this? 102 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:28,760 That is a masterful deflection. 103 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,960 We are talking about your wife right now. 104 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:34,480 You see that shake? 105 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,160 You're minimising her feelings. 106 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:39,240 Oh, wow. 107 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,520 What Paul was saying was valid. I have felt those things 108 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,440 at some point in this process. Yeah. And he did them. 109 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:50,440 And I feel really guilty, 110 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,040 and I literally cried after because I felt so bad 111 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,720 that in that moment I didn't stand up for him. 112 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,360 I hate upsetting people. But you didn't upset him, 113 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,320 to be fair, his own actions being handed to him upset him. 114 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,200 I think it's the avoidance. He goes in tangents and starts talking 115 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,200 about different things. Yeah, and I'm like, "Just say it, man." 116 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,480 Yeah. And it comes across that he's kind of shifting blame 117 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:09,560 and sometimes it does 118 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,920 get shifted onto you, which is totally unfair. Yeah. 119 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,320 NELLY: I am finding it hard to hear them speak 120 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,360 about Steven in a negative way, but I think also a part of it comes 121 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,120 down to the fact that I do obviously really like him, 122 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,240 and I do want him to feel like I did have his back 123 00:05:23,280 --> 00:05:24,800 and support him where possible, 124 00:05:24,840 --> 00:05:27,880 but there is a line where there's some things I can't defend. 125 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:37,160 Oh, hello, lads. You all right? 126 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,720 How are we doing? Hey, lads. Ooh! 127 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,280 Nothing to see here. 128 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,040 Good? 129 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:46,840 Very much looking forward to a relaxing spa day 130 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,360 after last night's commitment ceremony. 131 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:52,400 Fresh opinions, fresh energy, new lease of life. 132 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,320 How'd you find last night? Yeah, it was, um, intense. 133 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:56,880 Yeah? How are you feeling, genuinely? 134 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,120 Yeah, yours was a bit brutal. 135 00:05:58,160 --> 00:05:59,840 I'm feeling all right. At first it was... 136 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:01,040 ..I was a little bit like, "Ooh." 137 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,920 It's not exactly the ideal situation to be put in. 138 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,840 Yeah. You handled yourself pretty well. 139 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,360 Yeah, you really did. You did. Do you know what? I feel like 140 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,240 she's honestly a sweet, lovely girl. 141 00:06:11,280 --> 00:06:13,560 I think she just honestly, genuinely does have, like, 142 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,000 really strong feelings for you 143 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,040 and I think that's where the insecurities may come from. 144 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,800 Coming away from the commitment ceremony, 145 00:06:20,840 --> 00:06:23,440 I think it's a hard one because I didn't feel supported. 146 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,200 So, I think I'm more annoyed at the blind-siding from Nelly's part, 147 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,520 to be honest, saying I don't consider her feelings 148 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:30,520 when that's not been the case since day one. 149 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,240 So, why is she waiting till now to say it? 150 00:06:32,280 --> 00:06:33,880 It's obviously going to get my back up. 151 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,000 Divarni, was that proper intense for you guys? 152 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:40,080 I mean, yeah. I've had my ups and downs for sure. Yeah. 153 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,760 The first week, I got a grilling from Paul and Charlene. Did you? 154 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,240 Yeah, yeah. Why? Just because we had 155 00:06:45,280 --> 00:06:47,160 a couple arguments throughout our honeymoon 156 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,640 and it was just more, like, dealing with the conflict side. 157 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:54,360 But, outside of that, we're pretty much good, to be fair. Oh, good! 158 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:02,840 I suppose my only concern is that he's just way further 159 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,440 ahead than me in terms of like, progression... 160 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,120 ..but like, I'm on path, but I just like, 161 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,840 I know he's like 20 million miles ahead. 162 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,080 It worries me a little bit, but bless him... 163 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:17,360 I feel like it's nice to, like, 164 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,080 not be with Divarni today, just to have like a breath of fresh air. 165 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,040 I feel like this is a little bit needed. 166 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,040 I said to him, "Is there anything bad about her?" 167 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,880 And he's like, "There's nothing bad. Like, she's perfect." 168 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,560 So how are you feeling about you and Bailey at the moment? 169 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:44,320 I feel good. Like, I feel like we are sailing through it. 170 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,640 I like him so much. 171 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,200 REBECCA: I feel super lucky that Bailey and I are in a 172 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:53,520 really consistent place and our feelings just grow day by day. 173 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,880 It's exciting to...to think about what the future could hold for us. 174 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,240 How do you feel, like, on the back of the commitment ceremony? 175 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:02,640 Because, you, I feel like that was 176 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,440 the first time you opened up, like properly opened up. 177 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,720 I feel like Leah feels slightly 178 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,920 different towards me now, in a positive way, 179 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,160 now that she's seen me be able to be vulnerable. 180 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,960 I've been through a lot of situations 181 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:21,280 where me acting off of how I feel 182 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,320 has just led to me getting really hurt... 183 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,680 ..and so... You're protecting yourself? ..Yeah. 184 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,280 Yeah. And it's like I've 185 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:37,840 turned something off in me from, like, 186 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,520 my previous relationship and I, like, can't get it back on. 187 00:08:41,560 --> 00:08:43,600 If you were to start taking some 188 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:47,840 baby steps toward a more emotional style, 189 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,080 I think it would be received pretty well. 190 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,480 Yeah. 191 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,400 Moving forward, if I feel something in the moment 192 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:58,560 with Leah, just act on it. 193 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,920 Don't overthink it. Don't get too in my head about it. 194 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,520 Just act and be... Just be in the moment and enjoy it. Yeah. 195 00:09:04,560 --> 00:09:06,200 And don't overthink everything. 196 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,520 And she's just been well patient with me. Really? Yeah. 197 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,480 The commitment ceremony yesterday was tough for me and Leah. 198 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,560 I was quite vulnerable and I got some home truths, 199 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,200 but I feel like they were needed. 200 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,280 But I do feel like we're both feeling 201 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,160 like we're in a similar place at the moment. 202 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:30,040 The fact that she broke down, obviously, 203 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,720 I don't want to see that - it's not nice. 204 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:35,000 And it did make me sad, but I've needed that. Yeah. 205 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,080 I've needed to see 206 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:38,320 that she has got a heart in there, that she has got emotion, 207 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:42,160 that she is feeling something. So I think, for me, now, 208 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,240 I just need to make her aware that A - I'm not going to hurt her. 209 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,720 B - it's all right to be vulnerable with me. 210 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:49,640 Like, I feel like we could go somewhere. 211 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,200 How do you feel about your ball and chain? 212 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,280 We're all right, but we're not at the same time. 213 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,000 Like, last night, we had an argument. 214 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:00,840 What was the argument about? 215 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:01,920 He just said, like, 216 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,640 you need to start looking after yourself this week, 217 00:10:03,680 --> 00:10:05,480 but then listed everything that I needed to do. 218 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,200 Like. Like what? Like, get your lashes done. 219 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:08,960 Get your nails done. Do this, do that. 220 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,040 Oh. But then he was like, I didn't mean to, 221 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,880 like, make a list. I just wanted you to feel better about yourself. 222 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:15,720 I know it came from, like, a good place, but 223 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:18,880 at that time I thought, "Who the fuck are you talking to like that?" 224 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,480 But I was just like, "Whoa!" 225 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,760 I was like, "Don't tell me what I need to do." 226 00:10:25,560 --> 00:10:27,440 So I stormed out the apartment, right? You did? 227 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,120 Oh, yeah. By the time I'd calmed down, 228 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:30,840 I thought, "Right, I'm ready to, like, speak to him." 229 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,000 So I go to the apartment and I'm like, "Where are you?" 230 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,640 He wasn't in the apartment. 231 00:10:34,680 --> 00:10:36,440 So then I was like... He wasn't in the apartment? 232 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:40,640 No! So now we've argued, I've cooled down, like, 233 00:10:40,680 --> 00:10:42,640 I want to come talk to you and you're not there, 234 00:10:42,680 --> 00:10:44,800 and you haven't even told us that you fucked off. Oh. 235 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,320 So now me head's spiralling as well. Is it? Yeah. 236 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,880 It's been doing me head in, I'm not gonna lie. 237 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,000 I don't want to argue with Joe, that's the last thing I want to do. 238 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,360 Of course, it's upsetting 239 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,280 because Joe means the absolute world to me. 240 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,640 I know it's obvious to people 241 00:11:06,680 --> 00:11:09,440 that, like, I haven't really been my full self this week. 242 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:10,520 Yeah. Obviously, 243 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:13,600 I've got stuff going on at home and my grandad has died, 244 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,040 which has not, like, helped at all. 245 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,560 But me and Maeve have had this, like, argument last night 246 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,800 and I've just got huge doubts in my head. 247 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,120 What was that about? I just said, 248 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:27,320 "Can you look after yourself a bit more this week?" 249 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,080 Like, "Go and get your nails done, have a sunbed, 250 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,440 "just do whatever you need to do to, like, feel good." 251 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:34,880 Did she react to that straight away? 252 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,200 Yeah. She just stormed off, got really, really wound up, 253 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:41,160 and then it just wound me up because I'm like, 254 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:43,320 I just didn't understand the reaction. 255 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:47,800 She's very, like, bang, as well. Like, nought to 100 rapid. 256 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,400 It's just not how I deal with shit at all. 257 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,240 Like, not at all. And because she just went at me, 258 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:57,440 I were, I were just absolutely fuming, like fuming. 259 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:03,960 I don't feel like Joe's a talker though, like, 260 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,560 so I don't feel like he's ever going to be like, 261 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:06,920 "Oh, this is what happened between us." 262 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:08,280 Do you know what I mean? He won't ever... 263 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:09,600 I don't think he'll ever spill the tea. 264 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,080 There's nothing to worry about. 265 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:12,760 I feel like he just, he's so into you, 266 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,160 the way he looks at you and glows when he looks at you. He's obsessed. 267 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,160 For real, though. Yeah. Yeah, he's definitely into you. 268 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,560 I feel like me and Maeve have been in this bubble 269 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,640 and then I've, like, been in denial about all, like, 270 00:12:29,680 --> 00:12:31,680 the differences we actually have... 271 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:36,520 ..and how maybe we're not compatible, 272 00:12:36,560 --> 00:12:38,520 but, because we've been in this bubble, 273 00:12:38,560 --> 00:12:40,920 I've just kind of, like, ignored it all 274 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:42,640 and then I've just bottled it all up. 275 00:12:42,680 --> 00:12:44,760 And I think that's just, like, really affected me 276 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,520 because I haven't just been able to be my full self. 277 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,720 I'm actually very shocked. Every couch they've had on 278 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,320 the commitment ceremony, they've been saying they're perfect. 279 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,720 This hasn't started since you said "I love you", has it? 280 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,720 No, because, like, I do genuinely 281 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,160 have love for her, like, I genuinely do. 282 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,320 But then, do you love her? 283 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,360 I do love her in, in a way. 284 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:27,520 But am I, like, truly head over heels, truly in love? 285 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:32,200 Probably not. 286 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,720 There's just, like, these massive differences 287 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,480 where I'm just thinking, "Is this actually going to work?" 288 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,960 You know? You know, like, on the couch? Yeah. 289 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,040 It's all been sunshine and rainbows. I know. 290 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,880 So, have you held it back from the experts? 291 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,040 I haven't just been fully, fully honest. 292 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,720 I think, because we do care about each other, 293 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,280 we don't want to, like, say negative things about each other. 294 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,600 But, in reality, there has been things 295 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:00,560 that have happened where it's like not good. 296 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,200 How are you feeling? Are you going to move forward with it? 297 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,360 I can't just hold these issues 298 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:09,200 in any more because it's literally, like, burning me up inside. 299 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,720 I'm hoping this isn't Joe just running at 300 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,200 the first hurdle because I think he'll regret it. 301 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,640 It's been very hard, for me bottling all this up. 302 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:26,360 I really feel I can't do today. I'm feeling very overwhelmed. 303 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,400 Absolutely exhausted. 304 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,480 I need to leave and have a little time by myself. 305 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:56,640 This is nice. This is cute. Oh, nice. 306 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,520 Shot of dessert. Yeah. 307 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:02,160 Oh, gosh. Oh, straight on it. 308 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,600 Straight in it. Yeah! Woo! 309 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,360 What have you lot been up to? Uh, we did cocktail making. 310 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,440 What?! Have you been making us cocktails? 311 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,560 Did you taste the backwash in there? LAUGHTER 312 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,080 We do need to play a game. Snog, marry, avoid. 313 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:25,960 Really? Yeah. Can't choose your partner. 314 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,840 Go on, Maeve. Right. Snog, 315 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:32,400 it would be probably Reece, right? Marry, it would be... 316 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,680 ..Ashley. 317 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,720 And avoid...like, Nelly. 318 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:41,440 Any reason for that? I love you, but I couldn't deal. 319 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,800 Fine. Fair. Very honest. 320 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,440 OK, your go. Oh, shit. 321 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:50,240 Oh! 322 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,360 I would snog Ashley. Ashley's doing well. 323 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,880 Go on, Ash! Ash is cleaning up. My man. 324 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,520 I'd marry Steven, sorry. 325 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,000 And I would avoid Leisha. I can't. How come? 326 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,720 She told me that she was, like, 327 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,240 vomiting on herself and then, like, flirting with someone on the... 328 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:08,960 I had it, and I couldn't do it. Yeah. Fair enough. 329 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:11,600 Moving on. 330 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,560 Yeah, come on. Leah. Yeah. 331 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,960 I'd probably snog Leisha. Oh, right. 332 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:21,040 I'd marry Reece. Awh. That's nice. 333 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:24,320 I'd avoid Leo only because I haven't got to know you yet. 334 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,880 ALL: Ohh! LAUGHTER 335 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,080 How's everyone feeling? I know. 336 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,240 Well, how are you guys feeling? 337 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:40,200 And you? Yeah. How do you feel? You're very happy. 338 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,760 We know you're loving life. Yeah, we don't need to hear about yours. 339 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,200 We could see how happy you were. 340 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,080 Yeah, honestly, he's an amazing guy. 341 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:50,160 An incredible guy. 342 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,880 I couldn't have asked for, like, a better man. 343 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:53,920 Like, he gives me everything 344 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:55,880 that I want and also everything that I need. 345 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,800 And, like, I am falling for him, I will admit that, like... 346 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:00,080 ALL: Aw! 347 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:04,320 And, as a couple, I feel like we've grown so much. Aw, that's lovely. 348 00:17:04,360 --> 00:17:06,320 And I'm just really excited about, like, our future and 349 00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:09,320 I just, yeah, I'm... Cheers to you guys. 350 00:17:09,360 --> 00:17:12,760 I'm not even joking. That is too good to not cheers to. Guys! 351 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,360 Cheers. Thank you. 352 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,240 Me and Abby initially, like, 353 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,600 we had everything, but then we started laughing. 354 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,520 I was like, "Oh, class, I've got this as well." 355 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:24,720 Happy days. Like proper, 356 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,640 like, belly laughing over the game of cards and stuff. 357 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:28,480 Do you know what I mean? I was like, "Oh, nice one." 358 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:29,760 The banter's got to be there, innit? 359 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,000 100%. Sexual attraction and banter. 360 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,840 You're a little bit further down the line than what Abby and I are. 361 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:38,640 Yeah. But you're an amazing example of what I've got to come. 362 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:40,360 That's nice to hear. Yeah, cheers, mate. 363 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,800 And I know, Maeve, you and Joe are really, really good. 364 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,120 I know that you've got, like, an amazing relationship 365 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,160 and it's great that you're doing your thing. 366 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:58,520 I do miss Joe and, after our argument last night, 367 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:02,600 it's actually killing us inside, knowing that he's so upset. 368 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,640 Like, I can't wait to go back and give him a cuddle 369 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,480 and tell him everything's going to be OK. 370 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,200 Nelly, how are you getting on with Steven at the moment? 371 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:20,200 You know what? That commitment ceremony was really heavy... 372 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,880 because Paul said, "In this whole process, 373 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,200 "have you felt dismissed?" Yeah, I have felt dismissed. 374 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,080 He said, "Are you feeling, like, the deflection?" 375 00:18:28,120 --> 00:18:30,800 We've all, we've all seen it, right? Yeah. 376 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:35,160 But I feel incredibly guilty for not sticking up for him. 377 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:36,720 I don't think you should feel guilty, 378 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:38,640 though, because you have felt them emotions. 379 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,840 Yeah, I have. I just feel so bad because I just never want him 380 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:45,280 to feel like I'm here to hang him dry or not support him. 381 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,720 But I knew at that point, like, 382 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,240 I have to be honest, I have felt those things. 383 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,240 I'm not going to lie to the experts. 384 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,560 So last night was fun, wasn't it? 385 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,000 Yeah, right. That was brutal for you. Yeah. 386 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:03,400 Can you see where you went wrong? Yeah, 387 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,480 I know, 100%, and I held my hands up to that. 388 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:07,600 You did fuck up. 389 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,120 You didn't prioritise Nelly as best as you should. 390 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:13,320 Yes, but in that moment, 391 00:19:13,360 --> 00:19:15,480 I was annoyed at her because I would have spoken 392 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,360 up against Paul if he had said it the other way around. 393 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:21,080 You wanted a bit of support. 394 00:19:21,120 --> 00:19:22,840 We're supposed to have each other's backs. 395 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,400 Did she ever feel like that? Probably. 396 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:29,840 Yeah. That is the truth. 397 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,720 Did you ever feel, made her feel like that? 398 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:35,880 Probably. Yeah. Probably. Like, do you deflect? 399 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,200 You know you do. You said it yourself. 400 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,480 I think, at times, Nelly has probably felt like that. 401 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:48,040 Yeah. And I think, like, maybe you could just take that on the chin. 402 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,480 And do you know what, what she said to me afterwards, 403 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,360 because I spoke to her after the commitment ceremony, 404 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,880 and she said, "Out of all of this, like, 405 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:56,480 "I just feel like I want to protect him." 406 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:59,880 And, because of what happened on the couch, 407 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:01,440 she just feels like she's now 408 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,800 in protective mode and wants to, like, 409 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:07,000 put you in a little bubble of, like, this isn't who Steven is. 410 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,240 I don't want her to change who she is. 411 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,160 She's not going to change who she is. 412 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,920 She just wants to care about you. She's protecting me... 413 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,600 ..but I will see a change if it does happen. 414 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,120 But also... If then she's then not being genuine to herself. 415 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,000 But your focus right now is completely in the wrong place. 416 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:25,160 You're focused on Nelly now changing her behaviour, 417 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,280 and then you not feeling like it's going to work because 418 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,400 Nelly's trying to protect you. 419 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,800 Yes, but I've felt blind-sided three times by her now. 420 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,720 I don't think any of this is Nelly's fault, 421 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:33,920 to be perfectly honest with you. 422 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:35,280 I'm not saying last night was Nelly's fault. 423 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:36,520 I'm saying there's three previous times 424 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:38,160 when she's blind-sided me with things 425 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,240 when the cameras have been rolling. 426 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,480 We're bringing back things from the past... No, no, ..not yesterday. 427 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:43,320 But this is what I mean, this is what I'm trying to get to, 428 00:20:43,360 --> 00:20:45,120 like, I'm telling you how I'm feeling 429 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,080 and, again, it's like, yeah, but it's irrelevant. 430 00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:48,240 It's not fucking irrelevant. 431 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,200 I'm telling you, she's blind-sided me three fucking times, 432 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,200 which I'm allowed to feel, which is... Steven, I... 433 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:55,760 ..which is what we said was what we promised. 434 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:56,920 I'm sorry. I'm talking. 435 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,200 When we've promised not to blind-side one another, 436 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:00,720 be open and honest with one another, 437 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,160 and then she's not done that to me, it's going to put my back up, right? 438 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:05,680 I can't. I'm going to disagree with you there. 439 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,680 We'll go to someone else then because I'm getting annoyed myself. 440 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,000 But this conversation started with you taking accountability... 441 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,840 When I'm when I'm talking about something which is 442 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,520 that matters to me, it's disregarded, so... 443 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,560 It's not. I asked you, Steven, it's not. It's fine. We'll move on. 444 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:17,600 I asked you the question of... 445 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,280 We'll stop talking about it anyway 446 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,400 because obviously eyes and ears are here and...brilliant. 447 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,120 Obviously, girls are gonna have girls' backs, right? 448 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:25,800 So let's just cut this conversation. It's not that. 449 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,160 It's just all I wanted was for you to say accountability 450 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:29,720 and you blame Nelly. I didn't blame Nelly. 451 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,960 But, again, once I then start opening up about things... 452 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,120 It's not that you're opening up, Steven. It's not. 453 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,280 No. But it has been that again. 454 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:36,800 Your feelings and Nelly's feelings can both be 455 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,120 equally as valid. But when I have, 456 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,360 when I have a say on something, people are like, "Yeah, but this. 457 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,360 "Yeah, but that." So I'm just done with it. 458 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:43,880 You're taking it the wrong way. 459 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,120 Because maybe you talk about your own feelings 460 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,360 more than you talk about, like, how you've made Nelly feel. 461 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:55,240 You do. OK, Rebecca. Babe, you do. 462 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:56,480 I don't want to talk about this. 463 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,480 It's not an attack on you. It's not an attack on you. 464 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,160 I'll step out and get another drink. I'm fucking done with it. 465 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:02,880 I'll step out and have a fucking drink. 466 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,680 Let's all go. No, no, you fucking stay there. 467 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,520 CUP CLANGS Oh! 468 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:15,280 Fucking clowns. 469 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,040 ASHLEY: Steve, you got to take a breath, right? 470 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,440 You got to stay cool, mate, yeah? Look at me. 471 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,200 Look at me, though. You gotta stay cool. 472 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,680 I understand you're pissed off. I understand you're wound up. 473 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,560 You have to cool down. Hm. 474 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:45,640 So just make it clear 475 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,680 that you're taking accountability for what you've done. 476 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,320 But also explain that there's reasons, 477 00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:52,040 and you've only got one side of the story. 478 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,200 That's what I mean. 479 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,440 They only want to listen to one side, though, that's their problem. 480 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,680 This is your opportunity to say. I've said my say. They only want 481 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,600 to, like, listen to one person's fucking problem. 482 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,600 What? Steve. Steve, you've got to cool down, mate. 483 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,720 He thinks it's an attack. He thinks 484 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:11,280 that by giving him this feedback that we're attacking his character. 485 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,480 But what he doesn't realise is you've got two people 486 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:14,720 that really care about you, 487 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,080 that are trying to make you see your wrongdoings. 488 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,840 You all right? Steven, you have two drinks... 489 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,720 You OK? ..I made sure of it. 490 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:26,960 You need to, like, down them right now. 491 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,760 How you feeling? Yeah. No, I'm good. 492 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,240 Take this how you wish. No-one here is trying to attack you. 493 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:37,320 No-one. 494 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,560 I don't think Steven likes the home truths. 495 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,160 I don't think he likes when people are calling him out on 496 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,560 the shit that he's doing wrong. But what we do just need 497 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,280 in those moments is for him to just be like, "Yeah, I did. 498 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,400 "I made a mistake. I own it. 499 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,760 "And this is what I'm going to do to make it up to Nelly." 500 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:05,040 Oh. Delivery. Oh. God. Everyone looks a bit nervous. 501 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,200 You see their faces just woosh. 502 00:24:08,120 --> 00:24:11,160 "Hello. We've provided a game to help you open 503 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,000 "up and reveal to the group things 504 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,920 "that people might not know about you yet, 505 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,800 "or might come as a surprise." Oh, Lord. 506 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,320 "It's a game we've called Secrets and Lies." 507 00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:22,400 Ooh! "Each of you should take a turn 508 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,240 "to pull out a question from the envelope, 509 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:25,320 "read it to the group, 510 00:24:25,360 --> 00:24:27,640 "and then each of you should answer it in turn. 511 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,920 "Have fun and be honest. Love, Mel, Paul and Charlene." 512 00:24:32,360 --> 00:24:35,360 Ah. Getting hot under the collar now. Yeah. 513 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,480 Can't wait for this. Right. Ooh. 514 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,040 "Who's your secret crush amongst all the couples?" 515 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:47,280 Oh, Jesus Christ. OK. Just from conversation alone and, 516 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,720 you know, banter, which is potentially what I'm lacking in 517 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,520 mine, I think Ash is genuinely someone that I would 518 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,120 get on with really well on the outside world. 519 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,200 You know what I'm saying? 520 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,360 OK, next. I'll say Grace 521 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,240 because she actually reminds me of one of my exes, literally, 522 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,440 and she thinks a lot. I'll fight you for her. 523 00:25:05,360 --> 00:25:10,480 My stereotypical type is Joe, like, light eyes, lighter features. 524 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,520 Physically is my type. But Bailey's my guy. 525 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,600 Adore him. 526 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,040 Like, I'm not crushing on Joe, by the way. Yes. 527 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,280 Next question. "Who is keeping 528 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,560 "a secret about their true feelings towards their partner?" 529 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,880 It's a very difficult question, but, for me, I'm gonna go. 530 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,800 Juicy Ruth. Paul asked, like, a few times 531 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,840 in terms of, "Oh, do you fancy your partner? 532 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,920 Do you fancy your partner?" 533 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,880 And you found it really difficult to answer. Before you came here, 534 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,040 I've said to him multiple times 535 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,680 to his face, he knows that he's not my type, 536 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,760 he's heard it a million times. 537 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,880 The boy doesn't need to hear it five million more times. 538 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,560 Yeah. Fair. OK. Ta. Listen, Julia-Ruth, 539 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,480 I do think you're probably, like, struggling 540 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,040 with saying that you're, just openly... 541 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,600 ..that you don't fancy Divarni and that you might not get there 542 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,120 and you might be feeling, like, bad to say it almost. 543 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,840 I've said this to you guys, you've all heard it. 544 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,120 Is Divarni my physical type? 545 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,680 The man has heard it more than he needs to fucking hear it. 546 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,440 It's really rude now, after a while, do you know what I mean? 547 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:12,560 It gets a bit dry and old. 548 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:17,760 That's fine. Your go. 549 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,360 Nelly and Steven. 550 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,120 Who of them? Yes. 551 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,840 I think Nelly likes him a lot more than what Steven likes Nelly. 552 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,240 I think Steven's acting like he likes you, 553 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:36,440 but I don't think he likes you 554 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,160 as much as he's saying that he likes you. 555 00:26:41,360 --> 00:26:43,000 If I'm brutally honest, and I love you to death, 556 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,560 but I do feel Steven, yeah. 557 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,360 Hearing people say that they think Steven likes me 558 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:52,920 less than I like him... 559 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,120 ..it's obviously not nice to hear, but I knew it anyway, 560 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,400 so I'm not going to deny it. 561 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,320 But I just need to talk to Steven and just have it all out, 562 00:27:02,360 --> 00:27:03,680 and then lay it all on the table 563 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,560 and say, "Listen, where do we go from here?" 564 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:10,640 I don't think he's really trying. 565 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,680 He's not trying. Of course he's not fucking trying. 566 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,640 He's actually not trying. No, I know, 567 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,200 I agree, and that's why I feel so bad 568 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,640 because I had that in my last two relationships. 569 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,200 Don't get upset. Just say, "Here, 570 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,000 "you are treating me like a fucking piece of shit. 571 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,920 "You are a fucking idiot." 572 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,720 Just be honest and open... 573 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,960 "Well, aye, you're being a fucking... No, no. 574 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,680 If I thought I was getting mugged off, I'd say, "Here, like 575 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,520 "you are... Because you're probably stronger than me, Maeve. 576 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,240 The moment you see something, you call it. 577 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,640 I don't do that. But why? I-I'm not you! 578 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,160 I'm not you. I wish I had that quality. No, I know... 579 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,520 ..I know, but why? I can't actually be arsed, I'm gonna, 580 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,800 I'm done with it. Nelly! I'm not attacking you. 581 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,760 I'm just saying... No, I'm done with it. 582 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,840 But, Nelly... Guys, I can't. I'm gonna have a time out. 583 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,880 Like, I just need a time out. Like, fuck this. 584 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,000 Fuck this. 585 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,640 Fuck it. Hey. Why is this happening? 586 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,960 I feel like she's losing herself. 100%. She is. 587 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,200 Hey. I can't be arsed any more. Like, fuck this. Stop. 588 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,400 I didn't come here for this. 589 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,360 Compose ourselves. Come on. Compose. 590 00:28:33,360 --> 00:28:35,120 Sorry. Don't apologise to us. 591 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,760 Come on. Come on. You've got this. 592 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,600 Maybe if she does give Steven 593 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,480 an ultimatum, he might think twice and think... She's scared to, 594 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,560 but, at the end of the day, that's what you have to do. 595 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,040 Welcome back. 596 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,640 I'm crying because I'm so upset. 597 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,840 It's been a lot for Steven and I, and I'm just... 598 00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,440 ..I think that's what it is. I think it's all just coming out. 599 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,480 I'm clearly very open with this group 600 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,160 and, as much as I'm trying to hold back, I can't. 601 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,680 Guys, I just want to say I am really sorry for walking off. 602 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,080 It was really overwhelming and it's... 603 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,720 ..it's just how I deal with the situation. 604 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,800 He isn't doing enough and he does need to do a lot more. I agree. 605 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,720 And you need to stop giving so much of yourself. 606 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,040 I think, no, I think, I think I am too forgiving. 607 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,520 I'm so concerned about pushing that guy away. 608 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,440 I feel like, if I was you, I'd almost just tell him 609 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,680 where you're at and just say you've got to a point now where 610 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,280 he needs to show it, 611 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,560 or you're gone. Yeah, or you're gone. 612 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:44,080 Because of my past relationships and what's happened to me, 613 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:45,200 I worry that, if I was 614 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:49,800 to voice how I'm feeling to Steven, I'm going to push him away. 615 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,760 And then he's going to be like, "Nelly, you're too much. 616 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,560 "Like, see you later. I can't give you that, goodbye." 617 00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,080 And then, there I am, on my own again. 618 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,720 Like, that's what it comes down to, really. 619 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,840 Are we all ready for the next question? Let's go. 620 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,720 Come on. Woo! 621 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,040 Nelly, spill the beans. 622 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,760 "Which couple do you secretly think has the best sex?" 623 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,440 I'll start. 624 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:22,320 Bex and Bay. Yeah, easy. 625 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,960 I'll go Keye and Davide. ALL: Oh! 626 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,160 ALL: Yeah! 627 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,920 Can I say me?Oh. BUZZES 628 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,800 Where's Divarni when that's happening? 629 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,680 I lock him out the room. He's like, "Please?!" 630 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,320 Well, I know you have great sex. You have great sex. 631 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,880 You're not really having any at the moment. 632 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,400 No. You have no sex. 633 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,280 It's all good. Hey, it's all good. 634 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,240 DIVARNI: Getting called out for the lack of intimacy in my marriage, 635 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,040 yeah, it's shit. I'm not gonna lie. If they had the full perspective of 636 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,360 what was going on, their opinions would be different. 637 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,520 Next question. "Which marriage is the least likely to last?" 638 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,400 Oh, that's harsh, isn't it? Savage! OK. 639 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,240 Potentially you and Julia-Ruth, 640 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,840 only because you've just expressed struggle. 641 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,120 Yeah. I feel like, 642 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,520 at this point, you should be having 643 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,040 intimacy with your partners. 644 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,560 If you're not having intimacy at this point or any romance, 645 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,280 you know, I feel like there's questions to be asked. 646 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,360 Mine would be yourself and Julia-Ruth, I'm sorry. 647 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,560 I think it would be, out of everybody, 648 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,040 least likely to last long-term. 649 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,640 I'm going to say the same... 650 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,440 ..just because of the differences that I've noticed already. 651 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,280 Hearing everyone else's opinions, 652 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,840 this is really starting to piss me off. 653 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:02,920 Really sorry, mate. 654 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,720 I'm gonna have to say... All good ..you as well. 655 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,240 You're not really digging into it 656 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,480 and looking into what the problems are. 657 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,760 The group think my marriage is a joke. 658 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,080 I'm going to go 659 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,760 with Divarni and Julia-Ruth 660 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,960 because the clock is ticking. 661 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,520 We're halfway through this. Yeah, I know. 662 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,840 And I think you need to get that romantic side. Yeah. 663 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,280 No, for sure. 664 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,440 They think my wife doesn't want to have sex with me - 665 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,600 I know why. 666 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,800 Are you physically attracted to your husband? 667 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:41,920 I think he's an attractive man, yes. No... 668 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,840 Are you physically attracted to your husband? 669 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:51,280 Julia-Ruth is spinning a narrative that is not exactly true. 670 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:52,680 What's the sex like, then? 671 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,560 Oh, shit. Oh. 672 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,280 They're not connecting. 673 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,360 Has the intimacy progressed? 674 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,840 Yeah, I think we're still taking our time with that one a little bit. 675 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,720 But I know the truth. 676 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,320 Julia-Ruth knows the truth. 677 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,840 Are you getting enough affection for you in that relationship? 100%. 678 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,280 Do you want to go to the next level, though? 679 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:19,360 100%. You need to... Instigate. ..make her see that's what you want. 680 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,880 I agree. Yeah. She needs to feel like... 681 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:21,960 You need to be more dominant. 682 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,680 It's more like that passion. She wants to feel wanted. 683 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,640 I think she just needs to see a different side of you. 684 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,680 The truth is, we've been having sex. 685 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,200 She lied to the group, 686 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,280 she lied to the experts, and I'm done keeping that secret 687 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,680 when it's making me look like a fool. 688 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,080 There's definitely a conversation that needs to happen. 689 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,360 Honey, I'm home. 690 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,560 NARRATOR: After their separate days out, 691 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,440 the husbands and wives are returning to the apartments... 692 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,360 Ah, you're so comfortable. 693 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,800 ..but one bride is returning to an unsettling surprise. 694 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:15,600 Hello? 695 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:19,560 Where's Joe? 696 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,480 I've come back to the apartment and I've 697 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,440 found it empty, and I've got a message on me phone from Joe 698 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,200 saying that he's really struggling 699 00:34:31,240 --> 00:34:35,480 and he needs to have some time away from the apartment. 700 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,200 After our argument last night, in the back of my head today, 701 00:34:39,240 --> 00:34:41,640 I have actually been really worried because we haven't 702 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,520 really spoke about it and... 703 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,520 ..I just want to sort it out, 704 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,520 so it's hard that he's not here. 705 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,600 I just want to reassure him that I'm here for him. 706 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,600 PHONE RINGS 707 00:34:58,480 --> 00:34:59,640 JOE ON PHONE: Hello? Hello. 708 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,400 You all right? Yeah, you? 709 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:03,480 Uh... 710 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,360 I've just come away, just for the night. 711 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,880 But it's nothing about, like, you know, last night. 712 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:14,040 I don't want you to, like, 713 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,320 think it's anything that you've done or anything. 714 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:20,560 It's just what's going on at home and then, 715 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,520 yeah, I'm just stressing out about everything. 716 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:26,640 So I just needed just... A lot's going on, innit? Yeah. 717 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,400 Thank you. Thanks for ringing, appreciate it. 718 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,440 Yeah, I just wanted to make sure that you're all right 719 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,120 because I've been worried about you today. 720 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:35,520 All right, love. All right. 721 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,720 OK, darling. Well, drop us a message later, OK? 722 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,520 All right, see you soon. All right. Bye, darling. Bye. Bye-bye. 723 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,840 I understand his reasons, of course I do, 724 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,600 but I want to be there for him. 725 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,320 I want to look after him, like, this is what I'm here for. 726 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:56,680 I'm meant to be your other half. 727 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,200 I mean, I would like to think it's not about our argument last night, 728 00:36:01,240 --> 00:36:02,840 but I don't know. 729 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,120 I just hope when he comes back we can sort things out 730 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,440 because, in my head, I've been absolutely spiralling 731 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:10,800 and I really, really miss him. 732 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:18,360 Oh, God. 733 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:28,440 Hello. Hi. 734 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,880 Aye, aye, aye. How was your day? 735 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,320 It was all right. How was yours? 736 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,880 Um, the first part of it was good. 737 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,560 The second part of it went really shit. 738 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,080 Why? Um... 739 00:36:41,240 --> 00:36:43,840 Everybody doesn't believe that our relationship's gonna grow, 740 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,160 prosper or even flourish. Mhm. Um... 741 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,440 ..it just had me thinking about the authenticity 742 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,640 of me being true to myself in this whole experiment. 743 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,760 The reason why they made that judgment is based 744 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,280 down to the information... 745 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:03,680 ..that they don't know. 746 00:37:03,720 --> 00:37:06,200 No-one knows where we really are except for me and you. 747 00:37:06,240 --> 00:37:07,280 We're the only two people 748 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,120 that really know what's going on in this relationship. 749 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,200 Well, this was the problem. 750 00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:13,720 We've been intimate, you already know that. 751 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,360 And I asked you not to say it on camera. 752 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,800 I didn't say that it camera, that's the thing. You just said it on camera. 753 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,760 But at the same time, I looked like a complete fucking fool today, 754 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,440 100%. Taking all the blows. You didn't... 755 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,040 So take the blows. No, no, I'm your wife and I said 756 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,040 don't talk about it. No, no, it's not about taking the blows. 757 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:32,880 So you'd rather make me look like an idiot and lie, 758 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,080 and...? So you'd rather out me 759 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,280 in front of the camera... I didn't out you... and not respect my wishes 760 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,840 to not bring it to camera? I didn't bring it to fucking camera, 761 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,920 that's the point that you're missing. 762 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,960 This came out of something else. 763 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,320 Go and ask everyone that I went to the place with. 764 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,120 I didn't mention nothing. They told me, 765 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:50,160 "Oh, yeah, your relationship's weak because of intimacy X, 766 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,320 "Y and Z." But they don't really know what's going on. 767 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,280 I know what's going on. You know what's going on. 768 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,520 I shut my mouth, knowing that I was going to look like a fool. So why 769 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,800 don't you say, "It's not because of that, it's because of X, Y and Z"? 770 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,760 I did. So you would rather allow me looking like a dickhead...? 771 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,440 So worried about your fucking ego... No... 772 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,880 ..not about your wife... I've been worrying about you this whole time, 773 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:08,880 that's the difference. And now you've gone and aired 774 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,560 my shit out when I've asked nicely... I didn't air... 775 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,600 ..not to bring this shit to camera, even for your own sake, 776 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,040 not to bring it to camera. I didn't air this shit. 777 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,400 You want me to sit on the couch and tell everyone the sex is shit? 778 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,360 I don't give a fuck if you said if it was shit, 779 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:21,920 at least you're being true to yourself. 780 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,240 I'm looking like a delusional prick, saying, "Ah, 781 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,920 yeah, you know..." So, cop it and come and speak to your wife. 782 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,880 I was coming to talk to you, that's the difference. 783 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,680 But you're more than OK to spin the narrative 784 00:38:30,720 --> 00:38:32,600 and make it sound like... It's not spinning the narrative. 785 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,280 You're saying, "Oh, yeah, as your wife, as your wife." 786 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:35,600 Cool, I'm still your husband 787 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,600 and you're not understanding this because I was put 788 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,560 in a hard position that I didn't want to, but it's... 789 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,800 So your ego got knocked a bit. It has nothing to do with ego. 790 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,640 It has nothing to do with ego. It's about authenticity. 791 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:44,720 I know why I came here. 792 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,960 This experiment is about being true to yourself and being open. 793 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,040 You could've told me how frustrated you were and we could have 794 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,440 had this off camera. I didn't want to talk about sex on camera. 795 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,400 You want everything to be done your fucking way, 796 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,320 this whole relationship... Team, together, decision together. 797 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,560 Every single time, it's always about me adjusting to this relationship. 798 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:01,920 This shit, feeling like a fucking mug... Because I don't want to talk about sex. 799 00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:02,960 No, I don't want to be talking 800 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:05,960 about sex, but be honest and say it once. Let it go. 801 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,680 Sex is sex. So come home to your wife and vent to me, don't... 802 00:39:08,720 --> 00:39:11,120 Why the fuck do you think I was coming home? ..like I'm your enemy. 803 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,000 Oh, my goodness. Why not just say, "Babe, 804 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:14,360 "this was a hard day for me, 805 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,560 "we really need to talk about this off camera"? 806 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,480 Let me ask you an honest fucking question... 807 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,760 ..when people ask you about have we been intimate, 808 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,840 how do you say it? We say, "No, we haven't been intimate." 809 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,080 I'm not ready. No. I don't want to do it. You're not ready? 810 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:29,280 So, when we have, 811 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,280 because we have, you've still been saying no. 812 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,920 Yeah. Lying to people's faces. Is that your authentic self? 813 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,360 This experiment is about... My sex life with you... 814 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,840 No. ..it doesn't have to make me a fake person 815 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,000 Because I don't talk about my sex life. No-one ain't saying that. 816 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,760 You are. We're looking like fucking fools, 817 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:46,200 looking like mugs on our forehead 818 00:39:46,240 --> 00:39:48,120 because of this fucking communication. So come and talk to me 819 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,520 about it. I've been talking to you. You've been yelling at me about it. 820 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:51,840 I know the fuck why I came here. 821 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,840 Two main points. What is the point, Divarni? You're so disrespectful. 822 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,160 You could have said to me, "Babe, I had a shit day, 823 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,680 "please can we talk about the intimacy thing?" 824 00:39:58,720 --> 00:40:00,720 And that's what I was doing, but you're not listening. 825 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,320 No respect for me at all. It's crazy. 826 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,280 No respect for me. Sure. 827 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,160 Trust's broken. 828 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,680 Threw our whole relationship out the window 829 00:40:12,720 --> 00:40:16,560 when he decided to completely disrespect my wishes. 830 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,000 I don't know where we go from here. 831 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,000 NARRATOR: Next time... You will be participating in Love Hate Week. 832 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:28,120 ..a new task... 833 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,920 I'm excited about the love part, but I'm not excited about the hate. 834 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,920 ..brings some couples closer... I love us. 835 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,880 I love that you're completely authentically yourself, 836 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,120 it's the best thing about you. 837 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,440 ..but forces tensions to the surface for others. 838 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,200 You'll quite happily shift the blame to me. I can't win with you. 839 00:40:44,240 --> 00:40:47,760 This isn't me. I just don't know... Grace is fucking hard work. 840 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:52,040 And while secrets and betrayal still plague Julia-Ruth and Divarni... 841 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:55,040 I don't care whether people know that we have sex or not - 842 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,560 you do. I said we've had attraction issues. 843 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,040 If you're embarrassed of me, why have sex? 844 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,360 ..Joe and Maeve's reunion is less than a happy one. 845 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,920 Can you really see us working on the outside? 846 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,360 I'm feeling overwhelmed. But why? That's how I feel! 847 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,120 What the fuck's going on? 848 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,200 Subtitles by Red Bee Media